Character or Beauty

So, I asked two guys which will you prefer, character or beauty?

The first one said:

she has to be hot oooooo…

Her beauty has to draw attention wherever we go. Omo mehn! I choose beauty bigtime oooo

The second guy humbly said this:

“charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last;…”

I choose character because it is not what you have on the outside that glitters in the light, it is  what you have on the inside that shines in the dark.


Character is so vital than the outward beauty.  A lady of character will always be an asset to her husband and a channel of blessing to her family and the society.

Jacqueline Bisset says:

Character contributes to beauty. It fortifies a woman as her youth fades. A mode of conduct, a standard of courage, discipline, fortitude, and integrity can do a great deal to make a woman beautiful.

So, guys which do you prefer character or beauty?


4 thoughts on “Character or Beauty

  1. Can one be indifferent? Bcos on issues like this, for some of us its tough to choose. Let’s not pretend and say beauty doesn’t matter at all. Its an important part of the mix! We can iterate saying, “charm is deceitful and beauty is vain” and bla bla bla. There is a Shakespeare quote I hold very dear, which says “Hell is empty, all the women are here”. I tweaked that a bit tho. You see, character can be taught, imbibed and learnt, beauty cannot! Yes, we know beauty fades and all that. But did you see Mrs Folorunsho Alakija at 60! I bet you haven’t. Spend gud money and it will last. When u meet a lady for d first time, wat attracts you is her beauty, not character bcos that is not visible. Character can be changed at little or no cost, Beauty might cost you a fortune. I am of the biased opinion that there are incredibly beautiful single ladies out there with amazing character and that my friends is what I seek.

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  2. Ayoleyi,
    seriously there is alot of sense in what you just said.
    I sincerely agree with you that there are alot of beautiful single ladies out there with amazing character.
    Please call us to rejoice with you when you eventually find her kk 🙂


  3. No offense, but I think the first guy that replied was being honest.

    The beauty is always the first attraction for most. It takes a matured man to look way past that and even then, something physical has to attract.

    Am I right or an I right?

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